POSITIVITY

Positivity the new cool



Recently, I wrote on resolutionarires, but thats not what this is for, the Genesis and revelation of this piece is about positivity, positivity you might conclude is an everyday word, u hear  but it goes a long distance away from the shallow, positivity is a lifestyle, positivity is your mental state, thoughts, your view of yourself, your health, what you think of yourself, others and how you react to situations around you. Positivity is shedding a different light on everything.
Positivity is sitting down, and coming in terms with what u really see yourself as and not the mask you portray yourself to be, you might be all rays of sunshine, happy at the same time sad, fact is you only present yourself as happy, deep down u need someone to talk to, you need to address that sadness before you go on transferring aggression to everyone you meet e.g someone compliments you as beautiful it handsome, until you come into terns with a positive mentality that you are truly beautiful or handsome you will receive such comments as flattery or whining and not really compliments.
Positivity is everyday, dealing with day, before worrying or thinking about what tomorrow holds in stock, positivity is trying to see comments or words that can has well have double meanings and not get annoyed because the individual might have meant it in a good way.
Truth is what you think of yourself actually reflects on the outside far more than you can imagine, it affects your thoughts, clouds your mind, dwell on insecurities more, even affects your dealings with people. But when you consciously allow positivity in everyday, confidence seeps in, less worries and you serve as a beam of light to others around you. Positivity allows you see things in a new way, it's like a scale removed from your eye, you observe details, and become indepth because of a shift in thinking,and being an agent of change wherever you are.Trust me positiveness is infectious
Until you are your only channel of happiness, you won't be happy, because depending on relationships for happiness won't work, the relationship will start to tear and you suffer because you are dependent on it being your happiness. Until you can be single and happy with yourself, hanging out alone and not seeing it as loneliness. That's positivity in thinking. When last have you had a me time and not get bored or lonely.
Positivity is what you eat, not just carbs, Jungs alcohol every minute because it's available doesn't mean you should eat it or buy it, you ate what you eat.not just smoothies or vegetable shakes balance it all around.because it when the effects of eating badly sets in, insecurities and all. Remember it this body that will take you through the next 80 years or more.
So start with a day, a step at a time,positivity will give the momentum to keep going at each turns in life.
Think positive. Stay positive
Tobi-Makinde Melody 

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